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THE WAY TO BE SURELY, SURELY SEXY
from How to Be Sexy Without Looking Sleazy
by JoAnna Nicholson


Want him totally entranced? You don't have to do anything crazed or unnatural, but these (utterly practical) suggestions work.

A sexy woman praises her man, his body parts, brain, and humor.A man is fascinated by a sexy, accomplished woman, and he feels sexier and more confident with her at his side.
  • Sexy women do not mother their men. Avoid giving advice unless asked.
  • A sexy woman lets her man know that he excites her beyond her wildest dreams. There is no other man in her life; never has been, never will be.
  • Sexy women definitely love sex-not just the act but the entire process, from the first glance to the perpetual memories.
  • A sexy woman lets her man feel that she is his "private property"...if he senses that she is obviously available to other men, she isn't special enough to be with him.
  • A sexy woman tells her man over and over that HE is sexy. Compliments are golden: Your hair is so soft; you smell so good; your hands are so strong- flattery and praise. Keep them simple and truthful.
  • A sexy woman knows how to touch herself and can show her man how she likes to be touched.
A sexy woman may meet a man's gaze across a room, but her demeanor and expression leaves him uncertain that she could be his. There is a subtle line between showing interest, which can be flattering, and being too direct, which can be a turnoff.

Your voice is as much your signature as your fragrance. If cultivated, it can be a major turn-on- or a major turnoff, if it is harsh or if you use it too much. Find the perfect balance. Record your own voice and your laugh. If you do not like what you hear, lower your voice if it sounds high; if you talk rapidly, slow down your rate of speech. Consider a voice coach.

Sexy women thoroughly like men--not all men, of course, but as a "species".

Make a rule when adding to your wardrobe: I won't buy it unless it is equal to, or better than, the best look I have right now. Follow the same rule about men.

A sexy woman is patient and understanding "the first time"-she knows that his strong attraction to her may cause temporary "jitters". Tell him how sexy he is-how much he excites you. Hold him. Caress him.

  • Hands can be magnificent and eloquent tools. A sexy woman always has beautifully groomed nails and hands-and she knows how and when to use them.
  • Sexy women are not afraid to say no to sexual turnoffs and painful or threatening activities.
  • They would never let a man walk all over them or undermine their self-confidence.
  • Sexy women are titillated by the thought of making love anywhere and everywhere. Set intriguing "stages" for the seduction--think pillows, candles, music, sensual lighting, or a favorite beverage...A sexy woman knows that what one man finds arousing, another may find a turnoff.
  • Treat each new man in your life as if he were your first--he is totally special and a new and unique discovery. Respond to him as you have responded to no other. You have no idea how exciting this can be--for both of you.
  • A sexy woman readies her man's mind and body, subtly, a little at a time, until he feels incomparable passion. A knowing glance. Wait. A magical, sexy word. Wait. A touch. Wait. A button undone. Wait....
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